Thursday, May 25, 2017

May 2017

The Wilbourn Way Blog 

(aka Cats on the Couch)  

Dear Readers,

** Animal cruelty is now a felony in all 50 states.     

Read more 

** It's been a long time coming to keep animals from harm. Good news is we also have those who give love and care.

-- Here’s someone who hugs stray dogs to give them the love they never had.  Read more 
-- And someone else helping animals walk again.  Read more 

Click here  for Adoptapalooza May 2017

** Mayor's Alliance Adoptapalooza 
The Mayor’s Alliance Adoptapalooza at Union Square was an over the top success for adoptees. So many found homes. 

I was able to give Reiki to Banksy, a seven year old dog who was left behind.

Bansky, 7years old and abandoned

Carole's Take On Oscar The Cat Who .....

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Aries Is Now An Attack Cat
(Aggressive Cat Syndrome)
Aries is a player
“I do hope you can resolve this,” said Sara. “ We don’t want to give Aries up,” but he’s turned on me, even drew blood. I’m terrified, especially, because there was no provocation before his two attacks.

Sara had rescued Aries from the street where she had seen him for at least two weeks. She decided to move him in with her family, and they had him vet checked and neutered. That was seven weeks ago. But now Sara had become his enemy. 

Aries Needed His Own Space
Fortunately, their house had a few floors. Aries was kept in Adam’s bedroom on the third floor, so Sara could keep her distance. Once his main person, now he barely tolerated it when she left food for him at the top of the stairs. Aries now favored her son Adam, a high school senior, and was friendly with Adam’s younger brother and Sara’s husband. 

“I feel so betrayed and left out,” said Sara, “but yet I know somehow he feels I betrayed him.”  

I scheduled a home visit to evaluate the situation.

Toy Therapy
Aries meets robotic kitty
“Aries is a total player,” said Adam as Aries darted around Adam’s bedroom after one of the toys I had gifted. Sara sat outside the bedroom with the door slightly ajar so she could participate at a distance. 

An Anti-Anxiety Drug Was Needed
The vet had recently started Aries on Prozac, and this had eased some of his tension towards Sara so she was able to hang out with him briefly when she delivered his food three times a day. 

He slept with Adam at night and shadowed him whenever he could. Maxi, the family’s eight-year-old dog, stayed mostly on the first floor, so Aries rarely saw her.

“I’ll be satisfied for Aries to even tolerate my presence and interaction so he can stay with us and I’m not victimized,” said Sara. “So what do you think, Carole? 

Aries’ Prognosis
I told Sara the Aries prognosis was promising. I felt that if they followed his behavioral treatment program, together with the auxiliary support of the Prozac, Aries would recover from his PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) which had triggered his attack cat syndrome. He had experienced probable kitten deprivation, abandonment to the streets, and Sara had become his tension target. Somehow she reminded him of whoever had mistreated him —she was now his tension-aggression target. “Also, Aries is clearly the Michael Jordan type,” I said as he darted after the laser point.

Treatment Program for Aries’ Attack Cat Syndrome
  • Place an enclosure at the top of the stairway so Aries’ boundaries can be expanded.
  • Toy therapy intervals during the day.
  • As Aries integrates new coping mechanisms Sara can visit him for short intervals, separate from his three feedings.
  • Affirmations — tell Aries he’s becoming so mellow and trusting. This will help to deflect his anxious demeanor.
  • Play his musical link repeatedly to recreate the positive effect of his session.
  • When Aries becomes more at ease, consider the adoption of a feline companion.
“Ah it all figures,” said Sara. “Aries is so easily over stimulated, and he gets frustrated when he can’t work out his energy. We will definitely consider a companion anon, and you can guide the introduction.”  
For Maxi Reiki to soothe arthritis

Reiki for Maxi  
Before I left, Sara introduced me to Maxi whose arthritic discomfort slowed down her gait. I gave her a brief Reiki treatment (Read more) and reminded Sara to be in touch with a progress report. 

What a lucky cat and dog to be members of this caring family.

Orion's Catitudes
(Orion, a recovering feral rescue gives his cat-speak and ©whisker waves on cat issues)

Bela and Dash, two former rescues, play together with the MultipetToys that Orion gifted and endorses.
MultiPet toys a welcome gift

Patches is another newly adopted rescue. She always finds herself to the flowers.

Orion’s faves for May .....    

** Cat Doesn’t Fall (Read more)


** Karma

** Generosity
Brigitta, The WheelChair Cat Adopts Lost Kittens

** Orion congratulates the matriarchal Pippi who now 
permits her two much younger cat-mates to dine
with her. Click here and scroll down to see Pippi’s Nutrition

Pippi deigns to dine with her consorts

How Desi Wooed And Won Over Nero
(New Cat Competition)
Nero & Desi -- the inseparable Duo
“My Nero is seventeen, very territorial and hasn’t lived with another cat for about ten years,” said Gerri’s cousin.“ You could bring your cat Desi along, but it’s a gamble.”

Well Gerri moved in with Desi, who was greeted with a stream of hisses. But Desi was unphased and followed Nero under the bed, despite Nero’s repetitive whining. Perhaps it was Nero’s way to complain and object. 

Desi was neither disturbed nor deterred that Nero was bigger and older. Nero would immediately exit a room if Desi entered. Desi was still undaunted.

No Longer the Interloper   
Slowly, consistently, within two weeks, Desi’s focus and determination made chinks in Nero’s armor. No longer the interloper! They groom each other, play fight and even pass the bowl of food over when one has had his fill. 

There is almost never a time when they are separated. 
Evidently, Desi has a lust for older males, and Nero now has a consort. "If ever you decide to move out, you can’t take Desi, because he and Nero are so happily bonded,” said Geri’s cousin.

I find this a classic and brilliant example of a how a cat’s focus and persistence prevails and conquers. 

Bergenfield Library Presentation -- I Adore My Cat But  ......
Orion sent his robotic cat-mates to be my co-cat-speakers.

Here they are 
Robotic kitties

There were many questions 
One of the attendees wanted to know why her older cat was suddenly aggressive with his younger companion.

When I explained how a cat named Xena became surly for lack of acknowledgment, it occurred to her that this was a similar situation. Click here and scroll through to I Don’t Want to Give Des Away.

Drawing for a complimentary phone/ video consult
A representative from the rescue group Chance At Cat Life Rescue won the drawing for a complimentary phone/ video consult. 

Seeing so many cat-lovers made me a very happy person.

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Tuesday, April 25, 2017

April 2017

The Wilbourn Way Blog 

(aka Cats on the Couch)  

Dear Readers,

** San Francisco Pet Stores Can Only Sell Rescued Animals. 
Will your city be next?     Read more 

TNR workshop

** Become a Certified Trap-Neuter-Return (TNR) Caretaker. Learn how you can help the feral and stray community cats in your area.

This workshop is provided by the Mayor's Alliance for NYC's animals. You can become certified.  Read more

** These two feral cats are spotted on the campus of Shanghai University.   Read more

** Cat Man of Aleppo stays in Syria to look after pets left behind.  

Carole's Take On Oscar The Cat Who ..... 
Pippi's Nutrition
"Pippi's fur is fluffy again, and my three cats are actually eating together with no fur flying", was Connie's latest email.
I first met Pippi, who was thirteen years old, when I did a session to treat her aggressive behavior with her two cat-mates - Louise and Daisy. Pippi's guardian was now in a hospice so Pippi had moved back to where she had lived six years ago. Only now there were two young cats in residence.
Grief had triggered Pippi's fear which translated into aggressive behavior with Louise and Daisy. I gave Connie a behavioral program to slowly defuse Pippi's fear so the three cats could be companionable.   
I recently did a follow-up session to reinforce Pippi's acceptance of her two cat-mates. Unlike the first session where Louise and Daisy hung out in the closet, they now romped about with the toys and nip that I gifted. 
I told Connie I was really pleased with Pippi's progress, but her fur looked ruffled and unhealthy. When I last saw her, it was fluffy.
Connie told me how she had changed Pippi's food. I recommended that she slowly replace Pippi's current diet with her original food.
Evidently, it was the diet change that didn't agree with Pippi, and the return of her original food was a plus to the trio's relationship. It reminds me of the adage - "We are what we eat." Now Pippi can proceed in her matriarchal role in a happy and healthy manner, and Louse and Daisy will continue to mirror Pippi's transformation. Their behavioral program, proper nutrition and Reiki have nurtured their mind, body and spirit. That is why I find it imperative to treat the "total cat". 
Pippi after

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Orion's Catitudes
(Orion, a recovering feral rescue gives his cat-speak and ©whisker waves on cat issues)

Orion's fave for April  .... 

Cat And Carry
Orion appreciates this cat's view of the cherry blossoms at the Tongii University in Shanghai. 

Orion is fascinated by Pretty Boy who acts as Midwife to a pregnant goat before her delivery   

Orion and robotic cat

Orion requests I take his robotic cat to my presentation at the Bergenfield Library in New Jersey and also to the Adoptapalooza sponsored by the Mayor's Alliance for NYC's Animals. (Scroll through March Blog - Dear Readers)

Bergenfield Library - Sunday May 7,  2017 New Jersey
Adoptapalooza -- Sunday May 21, 2017 Union Square

Josephina on FaceTime

As Josephina relaxes to her distant Reiki treatment on FaceTime Orion gets a contact high.
Josephina again

Will Our Baby Be Safe From Our Cat?
(Single Cat Syndrome - Aggressive Behavior)
"Heath started to nip a couple of months after we adopted him,"said Doris. "He calmed down a bit after he was neutered. But now that I'm nearly six months pregnant, we worry what will happen with our baby." 

As I watched Heath zip around the room, he was clearly a type "A" catsonality - so very wired , athletic and easily over-stimulated. 

The Single Cat Syndrome
"Your Heath is affected by the single cat syndrome," I explained. "He needs a companion cat or a cat-friendly dog so that he could work out his energy in a healthy, acceptable way. Otherwise, his continued frustration will result in "nips" and unacceptable behavior."

"We are not in a position to add another animal to our family," said Doris. "What are our other alternatives? No way do we want to part with Heath. Too bad there's no chemistry between Heath and our turtle - our first born."

Robotic Cat Companionship 
"Let's see how Heath reacts to this cat?" I said and wound up the robotic cat I'd brought along. As the cat walked about with random meows, Heath followed behind in a gentle, low key way. He appeared to be fascinated, not threatened.
Doris and her husband commented on Heath's unexpected reaction. They were sure he'd beat up on the "intervention" and were surprised that he was so tolerant. I told them how some cats actually become cat nannies. This assumed role or preoccupation becomes a healthy, fun way to release their energy. So a robotic cat could be a fun diversion for Heath.

Treatment To Nip Heath's Nips In The Bud
  • Arrange play dates with a cat friendly dog. The dog should be introduced on a lead so Heath isn't threatened.
  • Heath might enjoy the company of a young child to hang out with.
  • Whenever you play with him, don't wait for him to end the interaction with a hiss or a nip. Stop before he stops you.
  • Some outdoor excursions could release some of his high energy. There are kitty strollers available for this pastime.
  • Whenever you notice his ears flatten, the flick of his tail, or a ripple of his back, toss a toy with a shout of enthusiasm to re-focus his attention.
  • Animal films on the internet or TV might hold his interest.
  • Continue to play the link of music played during his session to reinforce the positive association that will help to relax him.
  • Occasional catnip will give him a work-out and end with a cat nap.
  • Tell Heath he's such a mellow and courageous kitty.  Let's leave his aggressive profile behind.  Accentuate the positive.

Scroll through my earlier Blogs for these articles
May 2016 - Monkee Now Toddler-Friendly,
November 2016 - Monkee's Toddler Friendly Legacy
March 2017 Tiger And New Baby

Heath escorted me to the door as I said my good byes. "What a hunk of a handsome cat you are," I said, as he darted after the toy I tossed his way.


Sight Impaired
(Surrogate Eyes)
Emerald is a young female who was blind at birth. But, Sapphire, her sister, became her surrogate or guardian eyes. Whenever Emerald made the wrong move, Sapphire would let out a shrill meow. If Emerald was in serious danger, Sapphire would run over to her and with her head, butt her out of harm's way. She even allowed Emerald to eat first and would sleep beside her at bedtime.
Emerald and Sapphire
Their guardians were careful not to rearrange the furniture but when there was a new addition, they would carefully introduce Emerald to its whereabouts. One of my suggestions was to always keep the two cats together, even when Emerald needed a visit to the vet. Fortunately, the vet was usually able to make a home visit.A cat that's impaired in one sense may be well-endowed in another. Emerald couldn't see but her hearing was keen to compensate for her handicap. She was very responsive to music and loved to curl up beside the computer, listening to her personalized MP3.

Saturate your environment with forces that nurture your senses and your cat will reap the benefits - especially when you're overstressed.

Hearing Impaired
Magic is a 20 year old who no longer is able to hear but she responds to loud vibrations on the floor and sometimes to the sound of a whistle or loud bell. Of course, this perky, gray tiger cat is sound-selective in her response. If it's a signal for dinner or a brushing, Magic wobbles her way over chop-chop. Otherwise, it may be a toss-up.

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